i'm the kind of girl who feels uncomfortable talking to boys or even looking them in the eye..
my friends say i'm weird and that i'm being shy for absolutely no reason
no my friends.. i'm not shy.. i simply refuse to do so..
there i times when i think that i should change my ways and become more "friendly" so that they wont say i'm shy... but.. after reading this.. i dont think i should..
Nasihat Syeikh Ali Tantawi Kepada Semua Muslimah♥
Aku bersumpah lagi : “Demi Allah, jangan percaya terhadap kata kata sebahagian lelaki, bahawa mereka memandangmu kerana akhlak & adab. Berbicara denganmu seperti sahabat & apabila mencintaimu hanyalah sebagai teman akrab”. Bohong …bohong …demi Allah dia berbohong. Seandainya engkau mendengar sendiri perbualan antara mereka, pasti engkau takut & ngeri.”
Tidak akan ada seorang pemuda melontarkan senyumannya kepadamu berbicara dengan lembut & merayu, memberikan bantuan & layanan kepadamu, kecuali akan ada maksud-maksud tertentu. Setidak-tidaknya isyarat awal bagi dirinya bahawa itu adalah langkah awal.
just in case you're wondering who on earth is Syeikh Ali Tantawi..
Muhammad Sayyid Tantawy was an influential Islamic scholar in Egypt. From 1986 to 1996, he was the grand Mufti of Egypt. In 1996, president Hosni Mubarak appointed him as the Grand Imam of al-Azhar Mosque and Grand Sheikh of al-Azhar University, a position he retained until his death in 2010.
for more info, feel free to refer to the wiki on your own..
what he said/wrote really made sense..
on facebook, a certain group of the male species were talking nonsense about uncomfortable things..things that are "blue" if you know what i mean... if they talk about that kind of things publicly on facebook (in a group consists of about 200 people), then i cannot possibly imagine what kind of things they talk about privately with each other... the thought of it scared me and made me feel like transfering to an all female community...
so to the male species out there.. please keep your hormones to yourself..
you don't need to post it on facebook that your hormones are overflowing..
you guys are the future leader of families of future generations.. behave
you have no manners! (nyanyi lagu run devil run snsd)
not just to all the males ... females too..to everyone, girl boy, young or old...
just imagine our grandmother, cousins, future children and future grandchildren read our wall posts and blog posts...
better yet.. just imagine rasullulah visit you for a day.. what would you do?
wouldn't you be ashamed with the way you dress?
wouldn't you be ashamed with what you wrote on your facebook wall?
wouldn't you be ashamed with the way you talk and address other?
wouldn't you be ashamed with the amount of ibadah you practise?
lu pikir lah sendiri~!
i'm not a saint.. sometimes i do things that i know i shouldn't
so this post is really just a reminder for myself..
honestly i'm not aiming to tease anyone.. not at all
tapi sape yg mkn cili terase lah pedasnye...
oleh itu.. sape yg terase pedas lepas makan lade cengik tu marilah same2 berusaha jdi insan yg lebih baik dan berusaha meningkatkan keimanan kita terhadapNya
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